Starting a new chapter abroad can be both thrilling and nerve-wracking. As a Filipino looking to become an au pair in the Netherlands, you're not just seeking a job - you're opening the door to life-changing experiences.
What Being an Au Pair in the Netherlands Really Means
An au pair isn't just a babysitter. You'll be a big sister or brother figure, living with a Dutch family while helping with childcare and some basic household tasks. Most host families expect around 30 hours of help weekly.
Dutch families value punctuality and clear communication. They'll treat you as part of their family – not as household help. This is very different from how household staff might be viewed back home.
My former client Maria from Cebu shares: "I was surprised when my host parents insisted I eat dinner with them every night. They wanted to hear my opinions and teach me about Dutch culture!"
Visa Requirements Made Simple
Getting your paperwork right is crucial. Here's what you need:
- Valid passport (with at least 12 months validity)
- Au pair contract with your host family
- Proof of registration with an approved au pair agency
- Health insurance coverage
- BSN number (you'll get this after arrival)
Start your application at least 3 months before your planned departure. Many Filipinos underestimate how long background checks can take!
Cultural Differences You'll Notice
Dutch people can seem blunt at first. If your host mom says your cooking needs improvement, she's not being rude – just direct! Filipinos often find this directness shocking at first.
Weather will be a big adjustment too. Winters are cold and dark. Buy thermal underwear before arriving - it's cheaper in the Philippines than here!
(Also, don't be surprised if your host family eats dinner at 6 PM sharp. And yes, they really do put chocolate sprinkles on bread for breakfast!)
Building Your Support Network
Homesickness happens to everyone. Connect with the Filipino community through:
- Facebook groups like "Pinoy Au Pairs in Netherlands"
- Filipino stores in major cities (Amsterdam has several!)
- Cultural events at the Philippine Embassy
- Church groups if you're religious
Your first few weeks might be tough. I still remember how Jana from Manila cried every night her first week. Six months later? She was organizing weekend trips to Paris with friends and speaking basic Dutch!
Learning the Language
While most Dutch people speak excellent English, learning some Dutch phrases shows respect and effort:
- "Goedemorgen" (Good morning)
- "Dank je wel" (Thank you)
- "Alsjeblieft" (Please)
- "Hoe gaat het?" (How are you?)
The Dutch love when you try their language, even if you mess up! Your host kids might even become your best teachers.
Maximizing Your Growth Opportunity
Smart au pairs use their time here to gain more than just childcare experience. You can:
- Take free language courses offered by municipalities
- Join international student groups
- Attend networking events
- Take online courses in your field of interest
- Travel throughout Europe during your free time
One Filipino au pair I worked with used her experience to land a scholarship at a Dutch university afterward!
Ready to Start Your Journey?
The best Filipino au pairs prepare thoroughly but remain flexible. Dutch weather changes constantly - your plans might need to as well!
Ready to see if this opportunity is right for you?
Complete Klaver Au Pair's quick assessment to connect with reputable agencies who specialize in placing Filipino au pairs with Dutch families.
Take that first brave step. The Netherlands isn't just a place to work - it's where you'll discover strengths you never knew you had.
